Are you two compatible? A free BaZi compatibility test.

Each person's chart has a core element. Every element feeds one other element and tames one other element. Those two pulls describe how two people meet.

Feeding pairs. Wood feeds Fire, like dry logs keeping a fire alive. Fire feeds Earth, as it burns down to ash, and ash becomes soil. Earth feeds Metal, like gold and iron growing deep in the ground. Metal feeds Water, like dew gathering on cool metal. Water feeds Wood, like rain waking up a garden. These pairs tend to feel easy and warm.

Taming pairs. Wood breaks up Earth. Earth gives Water banks. Water cools Fire. Fire softens Metal. Metal cuts back Wood. These pairs rub, and handled well, that friction helps both people grow. Each pair has its own guide in the compatibility guide.